I’ve already told you what a challenge it can be for me to do what should be such a simple thing as taking shower. That all changed about a week ago.
I stepped into the shower and the floor flexed.
And cracked.
I can no longer shower in my RV for fear of it leaking into the underlayment.
Which means I now need to haul all my shower gear to some public shower facility every time I want to take more than a sponge bath.
Dave and I spent much of our vacation time together this week discussing the implications of that and the challenge of getting anything fixed with the Christmas and New Year’s holidays breaking up two work weeks. It appears even Sportsmobile took this time off work since they have not responded to my email inquiry.
In the meantime my stress symptoms are about as bad as they ever get and my depression, while it is less than it was, is not substantially better.
It appears my physical and mental health require I go home with Dave. To winter there once again.
So, he cancelled his return flight and we will be driving the RV home where we can have lots of time to figure out who should do the repairs when. And whether or not that means selling my much loved van if a too good to resist offer should come in.
While home our biggest challenge may be both of us learning to not let him take such good care of me that I lose ability to take care of myself. Wish us luck with that, please, since 47 years of habits are hard to change.
TTYL,
Linda
I’m sad for you because I know how much your van and your freedom mean to you. But I’m happy for you because you have a great alternative. You seem at peace with the turn of events.
You know that we will all stand with you no matter what decision you end up making. For now, though, I think you’ve made the right decision to head home with Dave. Safe travels and post updates when you can.
May I suggest using some eternabond.? It may be a temporary fix so you can use the shower until the floor is replaced or it could end up as a permanent fix. just a thought. 🙂
Sounds like the universe is giving you a loud and clear sign and that you have the wisdom to accept it… You are blessed that Dave is there with you to drive home in this crazy season.
Happy holidays to you both.
I will wish you more than luck. I will keep you in my prayers for safe travels home and a new beginning for you both! God bless.
aw, hate to read this, Linda … but as everyone else has said … so glad you have Dave. You were saying you didn’t get out of your RV that much so maybe being inside with all that snow outside won’t be too restrictive.
At least you’ll have Dave to drive you about so you don’t have to. I will not drive in ice or snow… I hope you send lots of pictures of your trip back home as well as pictures of the snow out your window and birds and squirrels …. whatever comes your way.
Sending good vibes your way ….
As disheartening as it may feel, going back sounds like the best option. Get back to more comfortable surroundings where you can regroup and decide what to do with a clear head.
I’m surprised to hear about the floor in the shower. I was under the impression this van was new and there should be some warranty with it. The rv’s I had were the same way. They used cheap soft wood for the flooring and any kind of moisture would warp and rot the floor. I’ve replaced more than a few floors with plywood.
Safe trip home. Get back, warm up, and relax for the winter. It will all be ok.
my heart to yours.
i know this is a blow. in more ways than one.
i’ve had that blow myself this year. i had to face that things have suddenly changed for me.
i honestly don’t know if they’ll ever return to normal. i tell myself they will. but . . .
i’m so glad you have beloved dave.
perhaps on the books or the horizon will be a NEW place that you BOTH will fall in love with and want to live in full time!!! i’m hoping for that! then you could take nice little short trips in the sand castle!
thinking of you with only good strong happy thoughts dear friend. ♥
i feel so bad for you.
i left a comment but it’s not showing.
and now i don’t even have the will to try to re write it. too sad. it was too long anyway.
i’m glad dave will be with you going back.
maybe you can find a place to live that will be good for BOTH of you in all seasons.
and then you can use the little sand castle for fun short trips together.
take care of yourself dear friend.
my heart to yours.
♥
well. good grief. there it is.
now you have 3 comments from me. it doesn’t rain but it pours!
May 2014 bring you back the freedom to roam, until then so glad you have Dave to get you back on track. There always seems to be bumps in the road…and maybe for a reason. But I’m hopeful you find happiness in spaces you didn’t realize were there…spring in MN will be there before you know it!
That’s a real shame, Linda. But only you know what’s best for you. I hope the weather warms up for you in Minnesota.
Hi Linda, just checked your blog to see if you were in Quartzsite and read of your troubles. We met once for lunch last year near Parker, so I’ve seen your rig and understand Sportsmobile as I have a Sportsmobile top they put on my regular Ford van. Please don’t be bummed out. Sportsmobile has a great business in Fresno, Ca. only about 700 miles from Quartzsite. I needed repairs on my poptop this spring and they just fixed it in Fresno after speaking with the Indiana shop who had done the original installation. I was living near Fresno at that time. It is a top notch business, had many sprinter units on exhibit when I was there. The 3 Sportsmobile business (Indiana, Texas, and Calif) all work together. The did my repairs that day, and just billed Indiana. A problem like yours they will probably pay your hotel cost while doing repair. Dave wouldn’t mind staying in nice warm Calif. a little while lon ger, would he?? Wishing you the best for days ahead. A traveling friend, Sue
I’m so glad that Dave came to spend time with you. He was there when you really needed him but sorry you had to deal with this.