“Minimalism is the intentional promotion of the things we most value and the removal of anything that distracts us from it,” Joshua Becker.
What do you value? The ability to travel? The ability to give of yourself to others? The stuff you collect? A job that makes lots of money? Time with your family? Seeing friends regularly? Time to get more healthy? Time to study things that interest you?
What in your life keeps you from being able to do what you value? Too many things requiring maintenance? A sense of not yet having enough of this to be able to do that? People in your life making too many demands on you? Too much house to clean? So many apps you can’t find the one you need? Too many “favorite” TV programs?
Is what you need more time? If it is, what is wasting yours now?
What could you remove from your life to get you where you want to go faster?
What are you most likely to regret when your life is over? The money you didn’t earn? The time you didn’t spend with friends and family? The things you never owned? The Joneses you didn’t keep up with? The person you would have helped if only you had more time or money?
Once you figure out what you most value, sorting out what to keep vs. what to get rid of becomes much easier. Even if that means getting rid of people who no longer contribute to your values–how many Facebook friends do you really need anyway? Wouldn’t it be more fun to meet a friend face to face and spend some time together?
Make room in your life for what you really value. You’ll be a happier person for doing so. Yes, Jim, for you that includes fishing.
TTYL,
Linda