Minimalist Defined

Lately I’ve been reading a lot of people writing, “I’m not a minimalist but…” Then they go one to say they have removed a bunch of their kids toys. Or they have simplified their schedules. Or they have figured out how to make a variety of meals with just a few ingredients. Or…

That took me back to the days when I often heard, “I’m not a feminist but…” Then they go on to say they believe in equal pay for equal work. Or women have the right to decide whether to work or stay home with their kids. Or whether or not to even have kids. Or…

All of those things basically say the same thing.

There is not one right way to be either a minimalist of a feminist.

YOUR way is the right way for YOU.

TTYL,

Linda

Letting go

To trap a monkey you dig a hole. You put something of value to the monkey, like a coconut, in there. You firmly bury sticks around the top of the hole leaving just the center open. When the monkey sticks his hand in and grabs the coconut, he can’t pull it out past the sticks.

The monkey won’t let go of the coconut. All he has to do is let go of the coconut and he’s free.

He’s sitting there looking at the guy coming to club him in the head and he still won’t let go of the coconut.

He trapped himself.

What coconut are you holding on to?

TTYL,

Linda

The Value of Things

“the value of an object comes out when we actually use it—not simply because we own it.” Cait Flanders

We’ve been downsizing since we decided to move into a motorhome back in 2008. That’s ten years ago!

Since then I’ve learned that downsizing never ends. Now that I no longer have the van we don’t need to own two colanders. We no longer use the Tupperware mixing bowls. (Except the big one we use for popcorn.) Etc.

I wonder how many other things we could downsize once again? I know there are things in the “entertainment” drawer we no longer use. Things that no longer have “value” to us. Things someone else might be happy to have.

It must be time to start filling another box for Goodwill. We need a new one because we took the previous one to them a couple weeks ago. See, downsizing never ends.

Because our lives change and what we used to value no longer works for us. Are there things in your life you no longer value?

TTYL,

Linda

Loaves and fishes game

I’ve been reading a lot of blogs written by Christians who are homeschooling their kids. Doing so reminded me of a game I invented to be used in our church’s Sunday School classes.

The materials available to me that I primarily used were a piece of thin leather and a bunch of those wooden spoons that used to come with individual ice cream cups. From the leather I cut a bunch of pieces shaped like loaves of bread. On each spoon I used a Sharpie to draw an eye and a fin to represent fish.

Then I made a spinner with the various pie-shaped spaces showing various combinations of loaves and fish. For instance one section might show 1 loaf of bread and 2 fish. Another might show 3 loaves of bread. Another might show 2 loaves of bread and 1 fish. Etc.

At the beginning of the game each child started with 5 loaves and 2 fish. At each turn they gave away whatever the spinner showed. They were told the goal was to give away all their loaves and fish.

They quickly learned to give their pieces to whoever had the fewest to keep them from “winning”. Before long they discovered that as long as they shared with those who had the least, none of them ever ran out of pieces. An interesting thing to learn, yes?

TTYL,

Linda